Comparing Brainspotting vs EMDR Techniques: Which One Fits You Best?
- Reaghan Beaver
- Jun 23
- 4 min read
When you’re dealing with stress or trauma, finding the right therapy can feel overwhelming. You might have heard about Brainspotting and EMDR therapy. Both are powerful tools for healing. But how do you know which one suits you? Let’s explore these two approaches together. I’ll walk you through what they are, how they work, and what might make one better for you than the other.
Understanding Brainspotting vs EMDR Techniques
Both Brainspotting and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) are designed to help you process trauma and reduce emotional distress. But they do it in different ways.
Brainspotting focuses on where your eyes are looking. The idea is that your eye position can reveal where trauma is stored in your brain. By holding your gaze on a specific spot, you can access deep emotional experiences. This helps your brain process and release stuck feelings.
EMDR uses guided eye movements to help your brain reprocess traumatic memories. You follow the therapist’s fingers or a light, moving back and forth while recalling distressing events. This bilateral stimulation helps your brain integrate the memories in a healthier way.
Both therapies aim to calm your nervous system and promote healing. But the way they engage your brain and body is unique.
How Brainspotting Works
Brainspotting is gentle and intuitive. Your therapist helps you find “brainspots” - eye positions linked to emotional pain or memories. You hold your gaze there while focusing on your feelings. This creates a space for your brain to work through, process, and release trauma.
You might notice physical sensations or emotions surfacing. The process is often subtle but powerful. It’s like your brain is unlocking a door to healing. Many clients describe the emotional shifts and sensations like 'waves' that eventually calm.
How EMDR Works
EMDR is more structured. You recall a traumatic memory while following the therapist’s hand movements, a light bar, and utilizing bilateral stimulation. This bilateral stimulation (eye movements, taps, or sounds) helps your brain rewire how it stores the memory.
You might feel emotions shift quickly during a session. EMDR often brings relief by changing how your brain reacts to trauma triggers.

Is EMDR More Effective Than Brainspotting?
You might wonder if one therapy is better than the other. The truth is, it depends on you and your needs.
EMDR has been studied extensively and is recognized as an effective treatment for PTSD and trauma. Many people find it fast and results-driven.
Brainspotting is newer and less researched but has a growing base of positive feedback. It’s often described as more gentle and body-focused. If you feel disconnected from your emotions or overwhelmed by traditional talk therapy, Brainspotting might feel more accessible.
Here are some points to consider:
If you want a structured approach with clear steps, EMDR might be a good fit.
If you prefer a slower, more somatic experience, Brainspotting could be better.
If you have difficulty talking about your trauma, Brainspotting’s nonverbal approach may help.
If you want to process memories quickly, EMDR’s bilateral stimulation can be effective.
Both therapies require a skilled therapist who understands your unique story. Sometimes, therapists combine elements of both to tailor treatment.
What to Expect in a Session
Knowing what happens in a session can ease your mind. Here’s a simple breakdown:
Brainspotting Session
You and your therapist talk briefly about what you want to work on.
The therapist helps you find a brainspot by guiding your eye position.
You hold your gaze on that spot while noticing sensations or feelings.
The therapist supports you as your brain processes the experience.
EMDR Session
You identify a traumatic memory to focus on.
The therapist asks you to recall the memory while following their hand movements.
You notice thoughts, feelings, or body sensations as they arise.
The therapist guides you through sets of bilateral stimulation.
The process continues until the memory feels less distressing.
Both therapies encourage you to be present with your experience. You’re in control, and your therapist is there to support you.

How to Choose Between Brainspotting and EMDR
Choosing the right therapy can feel like a big decision. Here are some tips to help you decide:
Reflect on your comfort level with eye movements and focusing on memories. Do you prefer a more active or gentle approach?
Consider your past therapy experiences. What worked or didn’t work for you?
Think about your goals. Are you looking for quick relief or deeper emotional exploration?
Talk to a therapist who offers both options. They can help you understand which might suit you best.
Be open to trying one and switching if needed. Healing is personal, and flexibility is okay.
Remember, both Brainspotting and EMDR are tools to help you feel better. The best choice is the one that feels right for you.
Moving Forward with Healing
Healing from trauma and stress is a journey. It takes courage to seek help and try new therapies. Whether you choose Brainspotting or EMDR, you’re taking a powerful step toward feeling more balanced and connected.
If you want to learn more about how these therapies can support your well-being, consider reaching out to a professional who understands your needs. They can guide you through the process with care and expertise.
You might find that combining these approaches or exploring other supportive therapies enhances your progress. The key is to listen to yourself and honor your pace.
Remember, healing is possible. You don’t have to face it alone.
Our therapists at Relational Resilience Therapy are Certified in Brainspotting and would be happy to answer any questions you might have.


